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It is a strange topic but I could.


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Yah.my best friends parents got divorced.and we saw them 4x's a week.so I felt like I was going through it.


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Those are some good questions. Ilike the last one the most.

4. What are choices teens can make today (think carefully) that would lower the likelyhood of divorce in their futures.

Teens could do so much. They could get to know the person they are marring better so they can find out if they would stay with that person the rest of their lives.


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But what does "getting to know them" mean? Some would say it means becoming good friends and spending quality and safe time together, especially doing things with groups of people and family members that they both enjoy doing. Others would say that "getting to know them" requires a high level of intimacy, tons of ALONE time together, maybe evening "moving in" to make sure that "we're compatible."

What are the boundaries that might lead to the overall goal (Successful marriage)?

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I've heard from one of my bible teachers what he thinks about making sure you are "compatible." He says you should share a checking account. I guess he figures if you last through that, and can agree on how to spend money, you've got something good going, but that is only after the relationship is strong and you have a strong spiritual base. You don't need to go around starting up bank accounts trying to meet people. :P

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That is an interesting way to see if you are compatable.Does your teacher know if it will work?


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I have no idea, it was just an idea I think... But it could work a little bit I guess

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yah.I should try it but I have a few years before I have to worry about that.


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That is so true. That's probably another reason why a lot of people have the problem of divorce, too -- they rush into the dating game early in life and don't save themselves for their future husband or wife. Yes, I agree -- God should be your only focus during the time that you are single. :)

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I think sharing an account is a wise decision, since the stats say that money is the op hing that couples get divorced over. Most of the time my husband and I argue its about how he spends money.

About the length of time thing... how long do you think it takes to get to know a person, and what has to go on during that time for them to be considered known?


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One of my best friend's parents broke up....she put up a strong front, but some things you just can't help but notice. How do you help a friend through things like that???? I mean, yeah, I'm there, but what else???? It's so frustrating not being able to do something like that.


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You might be able to invite your friend over more often to let them get away from their house. This allows them to hopefully "take a break" from being in a divided/ broken home. Even if you don't have them over, do more with your friend away from their house. Don't avoid their house completely though (Don't always meet them somewhere else). If you avoid their house it will remind them of the divorce and they will think that you don't want to go to their house because of the divorce.

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The amount of time...

Well... It isn't so much about time as it is about quality. If you "know" a person, than that person has told you about his or her self. You have also witnessed the character of that person through their actions. Usually time is used to refer to the effort to get to "know" one another. Generally speaking, people believe that the more time they have spent getting to "know" someone, the better. But, I know people that have spent over a year together and didn't do much more than the normal "hanging out." It is, in my opinion, more about the depth/ effort you put into getting to "know" someone.

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Yes I agree!:smt045 In depth knowledge of eachother is a given... :D

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