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 Post subject: Bullies
PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 12:57 pm 
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I need some advice about how to deal with bullies.
What would you do if you thought someone was your friend but then his/
her friends didn't want you guys to be friends because there was another
person involved and his/her friends were threatning you and harrassing
you when you didn't do anything to their friends to make them feel like
the way they do. what would you do if they told you to stay away from
your friend. would you do it? I really need your guyses help i'm really
confused i don't know what to do. What are your thoughts??? :smt022 :cry: :smt085


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 Post subject: Hey!
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So do you guys have any advice on what i should do??? I'm still confused
I would like to hear from you guys!!! So did you guys have school today?
I had a half day i got out at 11:30 today!!! I have pathfinders on
tuesday i'm sooo excited!!! I can't wait to march if we get to tuesday!!!


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To tell you the truth I am not sure. Probably tell an adult is the first thing you should do. That is probably gonna be hard, but if they are seriously threatening you that's what you need to do. If you become afraid that they will actually harm you, contact the police. If it isn't that serious, just try and be nice to them. Don't purposely go against them just to make them mad, but don't let them get to you either, and don't show that you're scared. In fact, just act like nothing out of the ordinary is happening. The reason they are doing it is probably because they are looking for a reaction of some kind, and if you don't give them one then they will have to move on.

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 Post subject: Heeeey!!!
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Thanx that helped a little bit. I think that sounds reasonable.


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Sounds like a hard situation. I would talk to your pathfinder councilor or leader, parent, teacher or someone who can help you through the situation. I don't know all the details, and it would be good to get someone you trust and can help.

Remember always to be nice, and treat them how Jesus treated others. It's hard, I'll be praying for you. :wink:

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 Post subject: Thanx!!!
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Its a hard situation to know what to do in, especially when I don't know the people involved. But like they said, the first thing I would do is talk it over with an adult who, if at all possible, knows all parties involved and will keep it confidential if need be. Also try to find out the reasons behind these peoples actions, they may have some unfounded fears about what this friendship would lead to. I will be praying for you as you deal with this. Always remember that God will see you through!

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 Post subject: Heeey!!!
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The people involved are the person i thought was my friend, the person I
thought was my guy friend, there friends that don't want me to be friends
with him. Most of his friends that don't like me i don't even talk to. i mean
I've said hi once or twice


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 Post subject: Heeeeey!!!!!!!
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So do you guys have anymore advice on what i should do????


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Hi Britni,

I am very sorry that you have to go through this. I was the target of bullies myself when I first started high school (but that was decades ago). I tried ignoring them, but it did not seem to help. It was finally resolved when my family and I moved to another state. The best advice I can give is that you should treat them as a Christian should, but don't let them intimidate you. If your friend still wants to be your friend, I see no reason for you to discontinue your friendship. That should be between you and your friend, not between you and your friend's friends. I assume you have talked to your friend about this?

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 Post subject: Heeey!!!
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Yeah i saw him today and he gave me a hug!!! he wasn't rude either!!!!
His friends finally left me alone. I'm much happier now things are fine but keep writing what you think i should do just in case!!!

But thax you guys are great!!!


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So did you do anything differently or did it just quit?

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How are things going now? Hope its all going better.

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im osrry about bullies i have to deal with them to....i dotn know what to say iv just started funning away when they start to be mean and im faster than all them so they really cant do anything about it.... :|

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 Post subject: Re: Bullies
PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 4:32 pm 
I would tell the other friends that you like that other person, and like to be friends with him/her. Be firm, yet polite.


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